Now I get it. "Dangerous" is hyperbole - that makes much more sense.
The backup camera (the part the gov't now accurately considers a requisite safety feature) works - but the cool feature that shows you where the wheels are going based on how you have the steering wheel turned - doesn't work at first. (Of your complaints, this is the one I see that is closest to inviting "danger.")
It plays songs off my iPod in a way that's different from what I want. Not a safety issue.
The InTouch system on early models, or ones that haven't gotten the free software updgrade, locks up. Not a safety issue. You can reboot the system while driving, or stop and restart the car to temporarily resolve the issue. And any new car you buy now will have the updated software. Not a safety issue.
Apple uses a different implementation of SMS and Bluetooth protocols from everyone else. As a result, system functionality that would allow it to automate texting doesn't work the same as on Android. I've sold lots of cars to Apple employees - every single one shrugged their shoulders at this limitation. At least I don't work in Seattle - the thing barely works at all on Windows devices. Not a safety issue.
You get a chuckle when you try to get the voice recognition system - one of the most advanced I've seen in ANY car - to play your awesome music. I'm glad it is making you laugh. I can easily program in destinations, set radio stations, adjust the temperature in the car, get fuel prices, make phone calls, etc. And it works perfectly almost every time. Maybe because I RTFM'd. But either way - not a safety issue.
Navigation doesn't show recent construction. Sorry, but that's a limitation of any in-car hard drive based system. It is still a **** of a lot safer than trying to hold your phone for navigation off a tiny screen. And forget about using phone navi while you're on a call (at least with Verizon on an iPhone). May be close to a safety issue - but I'm not buying it. Not dangerous anyway.
You originally said that leasing this car now is akin to committing suicide. I argued that one of the real benefits of leasing ANY car is that you have the benefit of an "out". Not loving the car after 24 or 39 months? No problem - just turn in the keys.
I'm not saying the car is perfect. I point out its shortcomings whenever I show it to clients. But its benefits are amazing. I smile every time I drive my car. And none of the electronic features have come anywhere close to causing a dangerous situation for me. If anything, they've made my regular driving safer than ever.
Sorry to pick on the new guy, but when you come in making blanket statements that really miss the mark, you're asking for it.