Update..
The dealership confirmed there is no OEM starter they offer for the Q50 and recommend the Viper Smart Start system. (No extra key fob, just an app on your smart phone. No range limit, just need cell service) But they don't do the install. He said they tried it once and messed up an engine... So he sent me to Best Buy down the road who is an authorized dealer and they normally recommend. When I got there BB didn't have the 2014 Q50 in the computer system yet so didn't know what other parts and labor are needed to make it all work. The installer sent me to another BB location where he knew their head tech and said that guy could figure out what parts it needed and do it for me. I went there and he looked up the car again in their system, obviously he didn't find it either and said there is nothing they can do without that info so I'm SOL.
It sounds like this system they use tells them which wiring harness, relays, and modules they need and it's not something they would touch without that info.
- I'm not sure what else to do now.